Communication is the key to a relationship.
The day that communication dies will be the day that the relationship dies.All problems when it happens should be tackled when it is still in the seed form.There's no point for u to keep all the frustrations inside of u..fertilising that seed (hurt/pain), dwelling in it, building it up.. If u continue to do this, one day this seed will germinate & grow into a great tree to take up every single space in ur being. U will start living out the frustration in everything that u do. It will clog up every senses in u, every love, every concern. It will even start to run ur life for u in every negative way. By the time this happens, it will be too late for u to uproot it. As it has already taken root in u with its root deeply penetrating ur being & clinging on tightly to u.Deal with every problem or every frustration when it is still in a seed form. Throw it out from ur being. Speak out ur frustrations in love (with the intention to reconcile not to create more hurt).Share with the other party ur concern & hear the person's point of the story/view. Learn to understand & put urself in the person's shoes. Many a times, wat we see is only one side to the story and it is this one side where all the frustrations / misunderstandings comes. Learn to be like a rotating ball that sees life at a different angle / perspective.Your relationship with the person is worth much more than the 1 time event that happened. Both parties had sowed so much to build up the relationship. Is it worth it to put an end to it over petty issues? Is the friendship that u share of so little value? If the answer is "No", then do something about it. Take the 1st step to share..to step out of that silence / frustration. Though it might hurt to share ur heart out, but at the end of it, u will find that its all worthwhile.Through every obstacles / misunderstanding / problems.. in a relationship, when u r able to tackle it well by dealing with it when it is still in the seed form, its going to bring ur bond with the other party closer & stronger. Problem exists to be solved (and be a stepping stone to the next level), not to be an obstacle / stumbling block.

Remember,Love is...
1) putting urself in others' shoes to see & understand things from their point of view.
2) sacrifice
3) unconditional
4) embracing even though it hurts
5) accountability
6) acceptance